In order for men to have sexual interest in the opposite sex, there is absolutely no need to create a romantic atmosphere with candles. This can happen anywhere, anytime. Erotic backgrounds can appear unexpectedly while working, walking in the woods, or casual conversation.
To the question: "How to understand that a man is aroused? "- every girl will confidently answer that it can be seen by an erection. Actually, everything is not as primitive as it seems. Psychologists confirm that the desire to have a woman betrays the appearance, facial expressions, body movements of a man. Speech can only convey the information one wishes to convey to others, and the face and body will give the true feelings and circumstances of a passionate man.
To understand that a man is aroused, there are certain signs.
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Erection is a sign of male sexual dominance. At the time of blood flow to the head of the penis, the male organs harden. In this case, the internal pressure can coincide with the arterial pressure, which allows the organ to change shape and increase its size.
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Non -verbal cues
There are few non-verbal body cues that are better than words that describe a man’s sexual state.
- During the conversation, the man inadvertently began to approach the object of his attention. And gradually the distance between the bodies will definitely decrease. Then a light touch of hands and feet will follow. This movement does not require active action, it is almost invisible. But this is how a new love story can begin.
- If a woman is nearby, the man wants to touch her, hug her. But coincidentally circumstances did not permit it, and he endeavored to occupy his hands: button and unbutton his collar, tie a tie, twist the buttons, smooth and straighten his hair, pull on his jacket. With enough enthusiasm, the young man wanted his partner to know about it. A man can be passionate when touching his hands or other body parts, straightening the woman’s hair, looking for a reciprocal appearance, while leaning close. So don’t be surprised when a quiet guy suddenly starts actively helping out of the car or serving coats. Everything is understandable: pleasant participation gestures are another way to touch an object that interests you. When sexual arousal comes, the man automatically begins to hit and twist in his hand the object that falls into his hand, which is cylindrical in shape. Good it's pens, glasses, and so on. This is no longer a signal, but a decisive attraction.
Dating stage
If a man expresses sexual sympathy towards a woman, then he will definitely fix this with his behavior. If the meeting took place in a restaurant, then he would fill a glass of wine, and offer a snack, and help to sit in a chair, and get up from there. He will do all this not only thanks to a good upbringing, but his actions will be guided by the instincts of masculine principles - to get an extra opportunity to touch the object of his desire. This expression of concern indicates that the young man was planning breakfast together.
Male pose
Observing the sexually attractive girl, the female heart conqueror’s internal toggle switch switches to the "alpha male" position. And this is where the movements begin that will tell of a man’s interests: quick abdominal pulls, back alignment (a bit of good physical form), shoulder turns, in a sitting position, leg lifts. Movements like that, show that he has something to offer a woman.
In addition, in the presence of the subject of his adoration, the man strives to appear in a good light. He straightened, pulled his stomach, straightened his chest.
Sometimes the signs of a stimulus can be read by touching the face (nose, chin, ears). Women also have such an attitude. They betray joy. And touching the lips or licking them clearly shows the sexual tone of this manipulation.
Physical reactions
- Fast breaths, enlarged pupils, parted lips, a rather hoarse voice - these are conditional signals that a man’s thoughts are working in a certain direction.
- The slightly widened nostrils seemed to capture the woman's scent, which showed obvious sympathy.
- At the same time, a feeling of thirst appears, which is associated with a rise in body temperature.
- Rona blushed on her cheeks.
- Touching the chin, nose, ears. According to psychologists, by stimulating this zone, the man tries to hide reflex restlessness and autoerotic symptoms. When aroused, facial skin becomes very sensitive to touch.
- When a man is dominated by lust, he loses control of his gaze and speech. With a blurred, flushed and pale face, even the most sane man began to carry so much nonsense that a girl might doubt his adequacy. Very simple - at the moment, information is processed that is not sent to the brain at all.
- A sign of an excited state is also the shift of the topic of conversation towards intimacy. Erotic intercourse may arise in him when discussing everyday and day-to-day things.
Any man is aroused by a visual picture. So that a woman does not have to monitor the erection all the time and listen to the breathing of her partner, for fear of losing the moment of joy, has to learn to interest the man and attract his attention.
And in conclusion, a little advice - during a love game, do not turn off the lights, because a young man, who does not see a girl, will not be able to arouse passion, and he will not know whether he is ready for sexual exploitation.